Too long, Too many guys

First let me start this new post with an apology, it's been far too long since my last post and way too much has happened for me to even remember to tell you all about but I am going to try. Although, let's start with a little note to say I hope everyone had a great Christmas...I know it seems like ages ago now but it was before then that I last wrote a blog!!

So, whilst I've been away I have been having quite a few dates. As I mentioned last time we had Yorkie Guy, now after the first date where we met for coffee I wasn't too sure. I don't usually go for ginger guys (no offence to my ginger haired readers), they are just not my usual type but I decided to give him another go. Date number two was another coffee on his lunch break..I had started to like him more and more and decided to go on another date. Let me stop it here though, what do you do when a guy "mistakenly" texts you a message meant for his ex boyfriend?? This was rather awkward and, you may thing stupidly, I decided to let it go and continue onto our third date. This time we went out for a meal and drinks...it was rather romantic and by this time I was practically falling in love. Maybe he could tell, after the date once we had agreed our next opportunity to meet up he then texts me a few days later saying that he wanted to end things as he wasn't over his ex yet? Code for he was fucking his ex still...what an arse!! Why do I always attract the knob heads of York!!

Back to Grindr I go..

In the New Year a rather cute new guy comes along, he is from Scarborough and I always said that I would avoid doing long distance but he offered to take me to the cinema and the draw of Zac Efron's abs is hard to resist (That Awkward Moment, watch it!!). I wasn't expecting much but he kinda impressed me, he was kind, a gentleman and not an arsehole!! And he is a great kisser, perking me up from my funk!! After a few more dates though I suggest going for Afternoon tea (one of my fave things to do, hint hint). Before I go further I must say in his defence that he had only had two hours sleep since his night shift. On the date he seemed rather tired but to overcome this he became hyperactive and rather loud, and in a nice posh setting reciting the scripts of Shameless and Looking isn't the best thing to do. It was rather my own Awkward Moment and couldn't wait to get him out of there! After a few more drinks at another bar I decided to go home, he walked me back to my car and apologised for being weird and we shared a kiss so it's rather hard to stay angry at him...should I give him another chance?

By the way, if you haven't seen it yet you need to watch Looking on Sky Atlantic, it stars Jonathan Groff of 'Glee' fame and is the most adorable gay character since Justin in Queer as Folk. It really is my favourite show right now and, if you haven't already, should definitely be on your watch list!!

So that's just a little bit about my dating recently. Any feedback would be appreciated and advice you think I need on what to do with Scarborough guy?

Till next time...

What to do??

Just to start my blog I wanted to pay tribute to Nelson Mandela....such sad news to hear about such a great man and person that has made such a difference to the World. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends in this difficult period. However, at times like this I think it's great to celebrate his life and the changes he made. If you don't know much about him take a little time to research him, he fought all his life for what he believed in and to help everyone else...of his life he mentioned that he would want on his tombstone that he did what he could do to achieve the purpose he was put on this earth for. I really like this and makes me question what I am here for, what I should be doing? Do you know what your purpose is? I would not consider myself religious but I like the thought that there is something after death and how we are never truly gone. Although, what ever happens the legacy of Nelson Mandela will last forever and what he has brought to the world will be remembered. 

Now, I have not wrote this blog for a few weeks and the reason is because nothing exciting or blog worthy has happened...my inspiration was not there and I've been caught up with work. However, a recent revelation happened the other day which was rather awkward. Guy, the first bloke I wrote about it my first blog article, read the blog and put two and two together and came to the right conclusion. Resulting in a few tweets and angry texts..I can kinda understand it as I wasn't exactly kind or discreet lol!! However, after apologies where exchanged and we started chatting again I kind of realised I missed it...I missed him!! Now, there was definately problems in the relationship but I kind of want to see if we could make it work again. What do you think? Does the second time around ever work? With Christmas coming up I'm not sure if I just want a boyfriend for the winter or I actually want to be with him....I need help guys?

Christmas is coming up and I'm very excited....not just the actual day but having some time off and just catching up with friends and family. I feel a lot more mature recently and am just looking forward to spending time with my friends over christmas...the Christmas diet is definately not going to be kept to haha!!

So what's on your christmas list this year? A new winter jumper, a hot new guy or just time with your loved ones? I'm getting very soppy due to the time of the year but I'm sure in the New Year I will be back to my usual bitchy self.

Make sure you follow me on twitter @yorksanonymous and comment on the blog...I love the feedback.

Till next time.....

No Guys Left!

Well if it wasn't sad enough that Sam Callahan got voted off the X Factor last weekend...I have officially got no Guy's left to have drama/ blog discussions about. Maybe it is Karma out to get me...Guy No 1 who I had the best kiss of my life with (as discussed in my last blog) felt that he didn't know what he wanted and thinks we should just leave it. Now, I don't know what you think but that is kind of like the "It's not you, it's me" line, I don't believe it for a second and think that I am not good enough. I am usually the dumper so to have this role reversal is confusing and making me doubt everything I know...ok maybe a slight exaggeration but o well!!

What do you think? Is it me, was I a terrible kisser? All these questions and frustrations only my blog to vent them to.

This happened last night by the way so I decide not to mope about so I got up bright and early to go to the gym (hot sweaty guys always cheer me up) and am looking to the future. I lost 5 and a half pounds this week and will be the brand new me in no time. Just got to resist the temptation of chocolate over Christmas. Who am I kidding, that's not gonna happen!!

I am reading Attitude magazine whilst writing this and stumbled upon the 'Table for Two' segment. For those who don't know, it's where two random guys are set up on a blind date and then they rate each other after. This particular edition has a rather cute but camp 31 year old hairdresser called Luke, he is definately my type, if a little too old but they set him up with a rather plump looking guy who just doesn't look that appealing. What do they expect? Although it does raise the question as to whether I am being too picky? Maybe I should choose a different type of guy? What do you think? I guess I'm never gonna find that Ryan Gosling look a like who just so happens to fancy me....I can hope.

My friend is currently in Thailand, having the time of her life by the way, but she is back next month. I can't wait to see her so I can finally tell someone about the drama in my life...apart from you guys of course.

Now just to finished a picture of Ryan Gosling...because who doesn't love a shirtless picture of this guy?

Till next time...

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