Too long, Too many guys

First let me start this new post with an apology, it's been far too long since my last post and way too much has happened for me to even remember to tell you all about but I am going to try. Although, let's start with a little note to say I hope everyone had a great Christmas...I know it seems like ages ago now but it was before then that I last wrote a blog!!

So, whilst I've been away I have been having quite a few dates. As I mentioned last time we had Yorkie Guy, now after the first date where we met for coffee I wasn't too sure. I don't usually go for ginger guys (no offence to my ginger haired readers), they are just not my usual type but I decided to give him another go. Date number two was another coffee on his lunch break..I had started to like him more and more and decided to go on another date. Let me stop it here though, what do you do when a guy "mistakenly" texts you a message meant for his ex boyfriend?? This was rather awkward and, you may thing stupidly, I decided to let it go and continue onto our third date. This time we went out for a meal and drinks...it was rather romantic and by this time I was practically falling in love. Maybe he could tell, after the date once we had agreed our next opportunity to meet up he then texts me a few days later saying that he wanted to end things as he wasn't over his ex yet? Code for he was fucking his ex still...what an arse!! Why do I always attract the knob heads of York!!

Back to Grindr I go..

In the New Year a rather cute new guy comes along, he is from Scarborough and I always said that I would avoid doing long distance but he offered to take me to the cinema and the draw of Zac Efron's abs is hard to resist (That Awkward Moment, watch it!!). I wasn't expecting much but he kinda impressed me, he was kind, a gentleman and not an arsehole!! And he is a great kisser, perking me up from my funk!! After a few more dates though I suggest going for Afternoon tea (one of my fave things to do, hint hint). Before I go further I must say in his defence that he had only had two hours sleep since his night shift. On the date he seemed rather tired but to overcome this he became hyperactive and rather loud, and in a nice posh setting reciting the scripts of Shameless and Looking isn't the best thing to do. It was rather my own Awkward Moment and couldn't wait to get him out of there! After a few more drinks at another bar I decided to go home, he walked me back to my car and apologised for being weird and we shared a kiss so it's rather hard to stay angry at him...should I give him another chance?

By the way, if you haven't seen it yet you need to watch Looking on Sky Atlantic, it stars Jonathan Groff of 'Glee' fame and is the most adorable gay character since Justin in Queer as Folk. It really is my favourite show right now and, if you haven't already, should definitely be on your watch list!!

So that's just a little bit about my dating recently. Any feedback would be appreciated and advice you think I need on what to do with Scarborough guy?

Till next time...

Foursome...too many people??

After a rather quiet November it has all started to get going again with my dating life....although it's like the classic bus situation where you waiting for 1 for ages and then 2 come along at the same time. In my case 4 guys have come along....I'm even starting to think it may be too many.

Now, I'm not sleeping with any of these guys, I'm simply chatting and arranging dates. However, to try to tell you about them all would be very confusing...and I think I'm going to have to create a new nickname for some of them. What does everyone think though? Should I just focus on the one guy, am I wrong to chatting to all these guys? After all, they all think I'm just chatting to them but I guess they could be chatting to other guys too!!

One of the guys I'm chatting to, I will call him Yorkie guy as he is based in York, is great...we have loads in common, lots to chat about and he has the sarcastic sense of humour which I love. I have arranged a date for this weekend with him for a coffee so expect an update to how that goes next week...maybe after the date if your lucky!!

Another of the guys is from near Harrogate, he is really cute and seems like a great guy but I think I may have scared him off by being a bit persistent asking for a date...think I'm going to let that one cool for a bit. May be for the best, not like I don't have anyone else to text.

So does anyone think they know who I am....I've already had Guy ( Right from the start of these blogs) figure me out but I am interested to know if anyone else can guess my identity? I figure that when I meet the perfect guy and start a serious relationship I will give this blog up and finally identify myself...but until then I guess I will keep up with York Anonymous and my ramblings....

Till next time....

By the way, if you think you may one of the guys then ask me on Twitter @yorksanonymous if anyone guesses right then I will say.

No Guys Left!

Well if it wasn't sad enough that Sam Callahan got voted off the X Factor last weekend...I have officially got no Guy's left to have drama/ blog discussions about. Maybe it is Karma out to get me...Guy No 1 who I had the best kiss of my life with (as discussed in my last blog) felt that he didn't know what he wanted and thinks we should just leave it. Now, I don't know what you think but that is kind of like the "It's not you, it's me" line, I don't believe it for a second and think that I am not good enough. I am usually the dumper so to have this role reversal is confusing and making me doubt everything I know...ok maybe a slight exaggeration but o well!!

What do you think? Is it me, was I a terrible kisser? All these questions and frustrations only my blog to vent them to.

This happened last night by the way so I decide not to mope about so I got up bright and early to go to the gym (hot sweaty guys always cheer me up) and am looking to the future. I lost 5 and a half pounds this week and will be the brand new me in no time. Just got to resist the temptation of chocolate over Christmas. Who am I kidding, that's not gonna happen!!

I am reading Attitude magazine whilst writing this and stumbled upon the 'Table for Two' segment. For those who don't know, it's where two random guys are set up on a blind date and then they rate each other after. This particular edition has a rather cute but camp 31 year old hairdresser called Luke, he is definately my type, if a little too old but they set him up with a rather plump looking guy who just doesn't look that appealing. What do they expect? Although it does raise the question as to whether I am being too picky? Maybe I should choose a different type of guy? What do you think? I guess I'm never gonna find that Ryan Gosling look a like who just so happens to fancy me....I can hope.

My friend is currently in Thailand, having the time of her life by the way, but she is back next month. I can't wait to see her so I can finally tell someone about the drama in my life...apart from you guys of course.

Now just to finished a picture of Ryan Gosling...because who doesn't love a shirtless picture of this guy?

Till next time...

Oh and btw follow me on Twitter @yorksanonymous

Living precariously!! Can I get any more serious!!

It has been a long and eventful week since my last blog which seems like ages ago.


As I mentioned last time I was dating two seperate guys, Guy No 1 and No 2 (I know my imaginative names astound you lol) and I had a date with Guy No 1 planned for the weekend. We met casually at the fountain in York, outside the Disney shop for those who don't know. Yet again, I had to decide where to go (this frustrates me), ending up at a local pub where No 1 ordered me a coffee, which was sweet as he didn't need to ask what I wanted (showed he'd been listening). The date flew as we chatted about our interests and got to know each other more, I start to think about what would happen if things went further with us, could I actually be in a relationship with him? After our coffee we decide to go for a little walk where things start to go weird, he tells me he needs to go looking round charity shops for his Halloween costume. Now not that there is anything wrong with this (although totally not my scene) I don't think this is something you do on a date, what do you think? I think he notices my disappointment and quickly decides to go for something to eat. The date ended well.....

The night to meet Guy No 2 came last night, I was really looking forward to this date as we had history, we knew each other and I really liked him at college. He texts me he is on his way, my insides twitter with excitement, I make sure my hair is perfect, smell like a posh boutique and have obviously flossed and breath minted (just in case haha). We meet and he is just as I remember but a lot hotter and more stubble!! We decide to go for some food after keeping the night pretty casual, a nice casual restaurant where we can chat and get to know each other, well that was the plan!! I don't know if he was nervous but he would not stop talking all night, even during mouth fulls (eew) and I don't think he asked me 1 question all night!! I like the guy he and he seems fun but I don't know if I can be with a guy who is more needy than myself!! After dropping him off though I really wanted to snog him, which must be a good sign, or maybe it was just so I could shut him up for a few seconds?

Since date number 1 we haven't really spoken that much, not texting since Tuesday so I kinda feel that may answer my question but what do you think? Do you think Guy No 2 was just nervous or should I ditch him? Who should I pick, or should I just continue until I have made my mind up, or my mind is made up for me? Help please, I just don't know if I can trust my self to make the right decision right now?


Ah....just got a text from Guy No 1 asking how I am, maybe its not over between us?

Till next time.......

Long time no speak!! New dilema eeek!!

The plan to write one of these weekly completely went out of the window, since it was May I last wrote one lol (Apologies if anyone was getting their weekly fix of my life)


Since I last wrote me and Guy* have ended (don't all cry at once), something to do with us being incompatible? To be honest he just beat me to it as I was going to end it the day later....don't like to be beaten to it!!!

So really you guys have not missed much in the last couple of months, however a new situation has occurred which inspires my new blog post. Dating two guys at the same time?? What do I do?

Basically, I met up with the first guy, Guy No 1 (I might tell you his name later on), and we went on a great first date. We had so much in common and he was really cute and definately the best looking guy I've been on a date with. I still managed to play it cool even though I just wanted to kiss his delicious looking lips. Then all of a sudden Guy No 2 adds me on facebook, he is a guy I met at college and (this was before my body transformation) we both never had the confidence to speak to each other. I've arranged to meet Guy No 1 this weekend for drinks but also arranged drinks with Guy No 2 next week. Is this wrong? Am I hurting the guys or will I eventually end up hurting myself? I know I will eventually have to make a choice but I somehow get the feeling that what I am doing is wrong, but maybe this is just how gay guys have to do it to make sure we get the right guy?


What do you think? Am I in the wrong and should end it or should I just see what happens? Please comment and let me know what you think and hopefully come back next week to find out what I do and how the dates go??

Till next time....