Too long, Too many guys

First let me start this new post with an apology, it's been far too long since my last post and way too much has happened for me to even remember to tell you all about but I am going to try. Although, let's start with a little note to say I hope everyone had a great Christmas...I know it seems like ages ago now but it was before then that I last wrote a blog!!

So, whilst I've been away I have been having quite a few dates. As I mentioned last time we had Yorkie Guy, now after the first date where we met for coffee I wasn't too sure. I don't usually go for ginger guys (no offence to my ginger haired readers), they are just not my usual type but I decided to give him another go. Date number two was another coffee on his lunch break..I had started to like him more and more and decided to go on another date. Let me stop it here though, what do you do when a guy "mistakenly" texts you a message meant for his ex boyfriend?? This was rather awkward and, you may thing stupidly, I decided to let it go and continue onto our third date. This time we went out for a meal and drinks...it was rather romantic and by this time I was practically falling in love. Maybe he could tell, after the date once we had agreed our next opportunity to meet up he then texts me a few days later saying that he wanted to end things as he wasn't over his ex yet? Code for he was fucking his ex still...what an arse!! Why do I always attract the knob heads of York!!

Back to Grindr I go..

In the New Year a rather cute new guy comes along, he is from Scarborough and I always said that I would avoid doing long distance but he offered to take me to the cinema and the draw of Zac Efron's abs is hard to resist (That Awkward Moment, watch it!!). I wasn't expecting much but he kinda impressed me, he was kind, a gentleman and not an arsehole!! And he is a great kisser, perking me up from my funk!! After a few more dates though I suggest going for Afternoon tea (one of my fave things to do, hint hint). Before I go further I must say in his defence that he had only had two hours sleep since his night shift. On the date he seemed rather tired but to overcome this he became hyperactive and rather loud, and in a nice posh setting reciting the scripts of Shameless and Looking isn't the best thing to do. It was rather my own Awkward Moment and couldn't wait to get him out of there! After a few more drinks at another bar I decided to go home, he walked me back to my car and apologised for being weird and we shared a kiss so it's rather hard to stay angry at him...should I give him another chance?

By the way, if you haven't seen it yet you need to watch Looking on Sky Atlantic, it stars Jonathan Groff of 'Glee' fame and is the most adorable gay character since Justin in Queer as Folk. It really is my favourite show right now and, if you haven't already, should definitely be on your watch list!!

So that's just a little bit about my dating recently. Any feedback would be appreciated and advice you think I need on what to do with Scarborough guy?

Till next time...

No Guys Left!

Well if it wasn't sad enough that Sam Callahan got voted off the X Factor last weekend...I have officially got no Guy's left to have drama/ blog discussions about. Maybe it is Karma out to get me...Guy No 1 who I had the best kiss of my life with (as discussed in my last blog) felt that he didn't know what he wanted and thinks we should just leave it. Now, I don't know what you think but that is kind of like the "It's not you, it's me" line, I don't believe it for a second and think that I am not good enough. I am usually the dumper so to have this role reversal is confusing and making me doubt everything I know...ok maybe a slight exaggeration but o well!!

What do you think? Is it me, was I a terrible kisser? All these questions and frustrations only my blog to vent them to.

This happened last night by the way so I decide not to mope about so I got up bright and early to go to the gym (hot sweaty guys always cheer me up) and am looking to the future. I lost 5 and a half pounds this week and will be the brand new me in no time. Just got to resist the temptation of chocolate over Christmas. Who am I kidding, that's not gonna happen!!

I am reading Attitude magazine whilst writing this and stumbled upon the 'Table for Two' segment. For those who don't know, it's where two random guys are set up on a blind date and then they rate each other after. This particular edition has a rather cute but camp 31 year old hairdresser called Luke, he is definately my type, if a little too old but they set him up with a rather plump looking guy who just doesn't look that appealing. What do they expect? Although it does raise the question as to whether I am being too picky? Maybe I should choose a different type of guy? What do you think? I guess I'm never gonna find that Ryan Gosling look a like who just so happens to fancy me....I can hope.

My friend is currently in Thailand, having the time of her life by the way, but she is back next month. I can't wait to see her so I can finally tell someone about the drama in my life...apart from you guys of course.

Now just to finished a picture of Ryan Gosling...because who doesn't love a shirtless picture of this guy?

Till next time...

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Great kisser!!!

Another post and so much to talk about..life is never boring, I should definately have my own show lol

Well, let's start with Guy No 2, as I mentioned last time I had completely had enough of him, and felt slightly like punching him every time I saw him, therefore I felt it was time to let him down gently. I tried to do this through continuously saying I was busy, firstly he invited me to a fireworks party but said that I had plans to go to one with my sister, then he asked me to go round the night after for tea (he knew I had no plans as I had told him the week earlier, little tricker to get out of) but told him that I was feeling ill, then after he asked me again to meet up I finally had to come clean and tell him I thought it was best to stay friends!! Was this the easy way out? I kinda felt like I wanted to tell him the truth, to help him in the future perhaps, but I just decided to say I didn't think we were right and we should be friends. What do you think?? 

Next, Guy No 2, I am very excited!! Went on date number 3, he took me to an Italian restaurant just across the river called Piccalinos, it was a great meal with wine and chat and laughs, a perfect date,  it was raining when we got out and he held the umbrella he had brought up for us to shield me from the drizzle (I'm sold lol)!! We got back to my car and I offered him a lift home but he politely declined...then it came to the goodbye!! His bright blue eyes looked right into mine and then his perfect lips came towards mine, I obliged to his demands and went in for the kiss, it starts off slow but then he grabs my face and shows his passion, I feel something flutter inside me and know this is how it's meant to be and the best first kiss ever!! 

After our kiss I convince him to accept my offer of a lift so we can spend more time together and then when we get to his we have a goodnight kiss...perfect!! 

So this seems like it's going well but he hasn't really text me much this week, he is busy with work but I would have thought that he would want to text me more...what do you think? Should I be worried, was I a shit kisser? I am now trying to play it cool as we have arranged to meet this weekend but I really just want a text from him, i will keep on waiting in anticipation!!

This week I've been on a new diet and fitness regime, I need to look good for my new guy, I have a target of 14lbs in 6 weeks and want to look like this guy by Christmas....happy perving guys :)

Till next time....